First times

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carol

#15
Quote from: feverpitch on February 05, 2018, 02:29:59 PM
i remember seeing eva herzigova on the SI swimsuit special in the 90s

this one?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JRkADWzsJKc
Start at 0:36 and watch in half speed...

I was watching that and my friend kept saying "she's way too skinny, you can see all the bones in her back" and I was just  :o

DaveSands

#16
My first time was a girl who had just started doing a lot of cardio a couple months earlier and was super into fitness stuff that year. My roommate had just gotten a new place and this girl came over to hang out before a party we were heading out to.

So she starts rubbing her lower back and says "I think there's a lump in my back, it's kinda sore" looking seriously concerned. She pulls her shirt up and I looked over and saw her lower spine sticking out so much.

Like this kind of, but picture even more defined bumps:



The roommate walks by and says "that's your spine, you idiot" and walks away.

After the roommate leaves, she turns and asks me for a back massage.

I start slowly rubbing her spine bones, starting exactly where she tells me it's sore. But she stops me, "No, I think it's the sides" so I press on the part to the sides of her spine where it was like lean muscle kind of, and I could just feel the two sides of the bony part of her spine. But not right on the bumps, just the side parts. She tells me "that's better."

So for the next ten minutes, she had me rubbing the side edges of her spine, pressing on the caved in part on either side. Every time my palm even landed a little on the actual bumps, she tells me to just press on the sides.

We ended up dating secretly for a bit after the roommate had a falling out with her. When I finally told her what really happened that day, she got a good laugh out of it but needless to say, I finally got to feel the bumpy part of her spine a lot more then.

Bergdog33

#17
I can't recall a specific first time, because I've honestly liked girl's spines since as far back as I could remember, in early childhood.  It slowly became understood as a fetish when i hit puberty in 8th/9th grade and started masterbating to whatever random pics I could find. That was back in the early 2000s...like 2003 specifically.  It was so hard to find pics of it on the web back then.  These were among the first internet model chicks i ran into that had a really nice spine...







Besides that, there were a couple girls in my high school who's spines would show either through their shirt or especially when their shirt slid up. I remember one girl wore a shirt that was technically against the dress code: it had a slit cut into the small of the back, literally where the lumbar spine is and nothing else. When she bent over in her seat to put her books away i must've been staring for a good 10 seconds.   It was about as perfect as they get:  lots of protrusion- the entire ridge/body of the spine was pronounced but still had distinct dips between each vertebrae. Very sexy skin tone over it. And the girl was the slim waisted yet curvy everywhere else type who did soccer and cheer. 

Death Dealer

First time to awaken my back fetish was actually in a mall and saw this magazine back in 90's. With Jennifer Love Hewitt



And felt so turned on and found the female back so fascinating.


It was then in high school where this one girl who always used to sit in front of me in class. Always unintentionally giving a back show, usually always wearing something short that rides up her back. And her lower back was always on display one way or another. One time she had her head on the desk leading forward. Her entire lower back and spine showing. I had to get her attention so touched her back to alert her the teacher was coming, since she was sleeping. One of the beautiful things about having a back fetish, it can be hidden and she thought nothing of it, and smiled and said thanks or she would have gotten in trouble. And didn't get all "oh you are such a perv" if to touch her anywhere else.

bcklvr

Nice. I know this is sort of off-topic but I've noticed Jennifer Love Hewitt's spine a few times, at least once in Heartbreakers I think.

Just found this one for now, not sure what it was originally from:


Death Dealer

Amazing back and spine on Jennifer Love Hewitt, that cap i believe is from the same movie you mentioned, Heartbreakers  :D

anyways "back" on topic

georgemac76

i always remembered hearing other guys make dumb jokes like calling a girl a stegasaurus because you could see her spine and feeling like i was the only one that liked it. cant really remember exactly when it started, it's always been my thing i think.

1st time i felt one though:

a girl i had a crush on in school introduced me to her friend who was in another class. at first i wasn't interested in the friend because well, i was still working up the nerve to ask out the one i still had a crush on.

it wasn't until later that year, a guy in my class makes a comment about how you could see that friend's whole spine top to bottom, i started noticing how often her shirt ran up her back and i could see her spine and how she had that really lean muscle on her lower back that looked like two defined rails, and they looked like they opened up in the middle to show her spine when she even leaned forward the littlest bit.

later that year, there was a school dance with almost the whole school there (it was a really small town) and by the end of it i ended up in a slow dance with this girl. it started out as awkward as anybody can even picture, but then i quickly realized i had my hand right on her lower back and i could feel those muscles to the sides of her spine moving around. after another step or two, she adjusts herself a bit and i find my hand landing right on her spine.

i still always feel like the way the spine feels in my hands is always different from how i imagine it from the way it looks. not better or worse, just very different.

Bergdog33

#22
^ ^  Yeah i can definitely relate to how the way the spine feels isn't always the same as how it looks. And is sometimes quite different than what you'd expect.  One thing i struggle with is connecting the visual aspect of the attraction to the more tangible, touch based aspect of it. I feel like spine related porn sometimes furthers that disconnect, but only to  an extent. The benefit of this fetish is that we can basically enjoy it without the girl even knowing that we're into it. Like even on first dates, if it's going particularly well and i can sense that she's digging me, I'll touch her lower back very subtly.  It's best if we're sitting, to where I can really guage how her spine feels.  This is how I've discovered that even some fairly curvy women have very pronounced spines in that position.   Where this fetish can backfire though is that it can be visually very distracting in certain environments. Like at the gym. A lot of girls wear workout attire that reveals their lower spine. This to us would be like if girls were completely topless with tits showing to other guys. Lol. It's fun but it can almost be overly stimulating.  Not sure if anyone else can relate to that

georgemac76

Quote from: Bergdog33 on October 12, 2021, 03:29:01 PM
Like even on first dates, if it's going particularly well and i can sense that she's digging me, I'll touch her lower back very subtly.  It's best if we're sitting, to where I can really guage how her spine feels.  This is how I've discovered that even some fairly curvy women have very pronounced spines in that position.

the 1st time i did something like this was a girl i had just started going out with a few days before, and she sat on my lap in front of a group of our friends hanging out together. she was tall and thin and always sat with her shoulders dropping forward so her upper body curled and pushed her spine out a lot more than normal. without thinking much of it, i ran my hand down her back before i even realized i was feeling her spine from top to bottom. not only that, i felt like it jutted out so much that i could grab the sides where the bumps end. it was the first time i even knew a spine could jut out that far. and with her sitting on my lap at this point, i knew she could feel what was about to happen next under her leg but there was no stopping that now. anyways i found out after that she just thought it was funny i was so turned on by her just sitting on my lap at first.

Quote from: Bergdog33 on October 12, 2021, 03:29:01 PM
Where this fetish can backfire though is that it can be visually very distracting in certain environments. Like at the gym. A lot of girls wear workout attire that reveals their lower spine. This to us would be like if girls were completely topless with tits showing to other guys. Lol. It's fun but it can almost be overly stimulating.  Not sure if anyone else can relate to that

this is the best AND worst part about this fetish. i was at a waterpark with friends a few years ago and noticed a girl passing by in a bikini and i could count the bumps of her lower spine as she walked away. it does feel over stimulating in places like that.

BFG1000

Quote from: georgemac76 on October 13, 2021, 04:50:35 AM
not only that, i felt like it jutted out so much that i could grab the sides where the bumps end. it was the first time i even knew a spine could jut out that far.

That's a first time story in itself. First time I saw a spine that seemed to stick out so far that it looked like you could grab the sides of it was a tall vegan girl I knew in college. She spent all summer wearing tube tops and other stuff that showed off a lot of skin. She swore she ate more than people assume even before she went vegan but I always felt like she was a "guilty pleasure" with her ribs and other bones showing so much.

I was used to seeing her upper spine sticking out just enough between her shoulder blades that it looked more like a straight smooth line. But the first time I saw her from the side when she bent over, I seriously thought to myself that I couldn't believe a spine could stick out that far. It wasn't very bumpy, more like "webby" because the tips of the bumps still showed but more just pushed the skin on her back really tight over them. So maybe it was a bit of an illusion but I swear it was like the sides deeper than the bumps were sticking out too.

I liked the idea of that more than how it felt though. It felt more narrow in my hand. I've dated curvier girls with better "defined" bumps that I prefer now, but I always thought hers set the record for how far it poked out and I can't deny that still did it for me.

Death Dealer

#25
Quote from: georgemac76 on October 12, 2021, 05:26:35 AM


later that year, there was a school dance with almost the whole school there (it was a really small town) and by the end of it i ended up in a slow dance with this girl. it started out as awkward as anybody can even picture, but then i quickly realized i had my hand right on her lower back and i could feel those muscles to the sides of her spine moving around. after another step or two, she adjusts herself a bit and i find my hand landing right on her spine.

i still always feel like the way the spine feels in my hands is always different from how i imagine it from the way it looks. not better or worse, just very different.

cool story, always nice to read other's share their stories on backs and spines, it's very rare and not often a discussion brought up in a room

a gift and curse, the gift it can be covert, and nobody has to know you got a fetish for her spine or back...the curse its worried she might find you a weirdo

I have to ask if you can remember, during this dance, did you touch her bare back and spine her skin, or was it through her dress? the best part about slow dances, are dances in general women usually always wear those backless dresses

and that's exactly wear your hand goes...funny many will actually appreciate the fact you stayed on their back...as most guys venture to their butts and it completely annoys them


georgemac76

#26
it was through a very thin dress. i hadn't felt a girl's spine skin to skin at that time yet. but even now, sometimes i get really surprised by how much I can see and feel some girls' spines through clothes.

that dance thing is definitely a lucky break for us.

Death Dealer

Quote from: georgemac76 on October 13, 2021, 09:42:25 PM
it was through a very thin dress. i hadn't felt a girl's spine skin to skin at that time yet. but even now, sometimes i get really surprised by how much I can see and feel some girls' spines through clothes.

that dance thing is definitely a lucky break for us.

very thin fabric is nice too, especially when the shirt is tight and you can even see a girl's spine through the shirt

johnnymicer

Wow, I feel like I haven't gotten nearly as lucky with this as a lot of you here.

I knew I had this fetish when I sat behind girls I liked in school and saw their spine. I probably always had it but those were my earliest memories of it.
Then there were times I got infatuated with a girl before getting to see her spine because not every girl shows it off. But then if and when I do see her spine, it instantly takes that infatuation to new levels, and I felt shallow as hell for that but I also know it's just how I'm wired.

The worst is when I feel like I'm in the friend zone with a girl, but then I notice her spine and I can't help building her up. And sometimes I feel like I'll sabotage it right then because I get way too intense or start acting weird with her and it gets all one-sided.
I've only seriously dated 2 girls who liked me back mainly because of that, and how the spine is such a make or break for me.

To get back on topic, the first time I touched a girl's spine was actually a girl that friend zoned me already so it wasn't great.
We were hanging out with our other mutual friends and she started complaining about a back ache. She asked me to try massaging her back because before that, I mentioned something about a muscle soreness treatment thing I had looked into. I had no idea what I was doing, but I thought maybe this meant I had a chance so I went for it.

Now up to this point, I knew she had a nice body but I only noticed her spine a little bit when she bends over. It was just the smooth straight line type and didn't even seem to be that prominent as far as I knew. Mostly, I remember being surprised how much more of her spine I could feel than I would ever guess in a million years. And I remember getting really light headed to the point where I thought I might pass out, so I tried to avoid touching her spine for a bit and just focused more on massaging the rest of her back. I went back to it when I felt ready and it seemed like she actually liked how it felt. So I really dug in, feeling that spaces between, the sides... really indulging.
So getting rejected by her when I worked up the nerve to ask her out after that really sucked.

It wasn't a great first. Now I try to make sure there's real potential first, like more obvious flirting and whatever but it's always hard to know.